Well, he called my mother's house looking for me once again. This time to say that he wants my address to have me served with papers. I can't beleive that I might have to let my poor little boy go see that pathetic excuse for a man, much less a father. He had a lawyer send some to me about 2 months ago. I went to a lawyer myself and he told me to just discard them. That they didn't mean anything since they weren't actually served to me by a constable and just sent in the mail. And, now here is the end of my battle. Unable to afford the lawyer, I am more than likely going to have to just give up. I am going to have to prepare to deal with my little boy crying when I pick him up because they have taken him into a back room when I get there. I guess they give him a toy to play with and then take it away. He was always so happy and ready to jump in the car. But, since I have to go inside to get his things, they take him back in to. And that is when they take him to the back room. I also have to prepare for the CPS calls again. They seem to think that I am an unfit mother and that I have no idea how to raise a child. I know that my family was not the greatest when I was growing up, but I know what to do most of the time. Hell, I have even wanted to become a Child Advocate a few times. Now I am going to have to let him go for a weekends at a time instead of just a few hours. Now Steve can't adopt him. I feel like I am putting him in more danger by just letting him go but, I it's like I have no choice in the matter. I wish we had moved to Nevada. Or hell, anywhere but where I am. I'm basically a sitting duck with a shotgun pointed right at me. I have never felt so helpless in my entire life. I thought things were going so great. I never thought that he would have the money to do this. And here he is with his parents backing him.
Well, off I go to bed...Hopefully I will get some sleep.
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I so wish I had a million dollars to help you, I know what a piece of shit he is. I hate to hear that for you.
Is there anything the gov. can do for you?
Dang girl. That really sucks. I wish I had all the right answers for you.
Thank you both very much. I am going to talk to Steve some more about it and see what he says...I am also going to try to get a job at the post office or something. I have heard that they pay very well and if I can do that than maybe we won't go completely under if I can get the job before the constable finds me.
there is a laywer based out of livingston that handles matters like these. he will let you pay it out and does not cost a whole lot let me look it up and i'll get you his name.
Good luck and keep in mind that you have the support of good friends who care. I know that doesn't make it easier but it will help you feel better in the toughest times!
Knowing that I do have the friends that care really does make a difference. Thank you all for your support.
I hope things work out for you Jen, you're a good mom.
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